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My whole life work has been a drudgery to me. I was adversarial with every boss I ever had and was always quick to buy into the office cooler bitch and moan sessions. My last job I did the same thing, and was quickly working my way out the door with my constant griping about how the boss was doing it wrong when one day it dawned on me that it wasnt my job to run the company. I know that sounds incredibly sarcastic but for me it was an epiphanal moment!
*My job was to make my bosses job easier - and that's my job!*
Since that day I have enjoyed my work, no matter how mundane at times. That was 8 years ago and I think she's raised her voice to me once since. Last month we were all told that the company is folding into our canadian subsidiary and she cried when she gave me my 2 month notice. A far cry from the openly tense relationship we had when I thought the company owed me.
When I looked at my boss the way Dr. Paul looked at his wife, Max in the story 'Doctor, Alcoholic, Addict' with my magical, magnifying mind the more critical I was of her the worse of a boss she was. When I remember how many hats she wears every day, how many balls she has in the air at any one time and how skillful she is at managing all that, those traits shine. The choice is mine which way i see it. Adding God to that equation always seems to make the difference.
Once I started practicing humility and service after I punched the clock everything changed. It made all the difference. It really had been as if I was keeping God out of my work life.
Have you ever read Chuck Chamberlain's 'A New Pair of Glasses'? He talks a great deal about practicing principles in business and it's where my sponsor got his oft repeated 'You gotta do it for free and for fun!" My life changed when I started to apply the Joy of Living to my workplace too.
*My job was to make my bosses job easier - and that's my job!*
Since that day I have enjoyed my work, no matter how mundane at times. That was 8 years ago and I think she's raised her voice to me once since. Last month we were all told that the company is folding into our canadian subsidiary and she cried when she gave me my 2 month notice. A far cry from the openly tense relationship we had when I thought the company owed me.
When I looked at my boss the way Dr. Paul looked at his wife, Max in the story 'Doctor, Alcoholic, Addict' with my magical, magnifying mind the more critical I was of her the worse of a boss she was. When I remember how many hats she wears every day, how many balls she has in the air at any one time and how skillful she is at managing all that, those traits shine. The choice is mine which way i see it. Adding God to that equation always seems to make the difference.
Once I started practicing humility and service after I punched the clock everything changed. It made all the difference. It really had been as if I was keeping God out of my work life.
Have you ever read Chuck Chamberlain's 'A New Pair of Glasses'? He talks a great deal about practicing principles in business and it's where my sponsor got his oft repeated 'You gotta do it for free and for fun!" My life changed when I started to apply the Joy of Living to my workplace too.
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Re: Principles at Work?
Sun, April 5, 2009 - 11:18 AMI'm not going to work for free and for fun, dude. Get real.
I've gained a new perspective on it since I was a boss myself. Having been there and wearing all those stupid hats and juggling all those balls, and worrying about payroll, billing, invoicing, who's on what job, customer support, etc., I'm at times quite relieved to be just a worker among workers again. I'm not quite at "making my boss's job easier" yet, though. I could probably do a little more in that area. Practicing the principles has been a boon to my outlook no matter where I am, be it work or at home. I just need to remember that no matter what others are doing at the water cooler, or here in Austria the beer table, I need to avoid talking shit, placing blame, back seat bossing, or any of the other passtimes that others enjoy. I need to remember like I would with any other situation what it says in the BB at the end of the 12th step. Instead of looking for what I can get out of it, concentrate on what I can bring to the table. -
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Re: Principles at Work?
Sun, April 5, 2009 - 7:08 PMYou didn't even bitch about being out of work soon.That's impressive.
Work, eh...I ebb and flow. As a contractor I have a lot of freedom. As a contractor I have to swallow a lot of egocentric BS because these people are my meal ticket. It's sort of like a cartoon. Sometimes I look my clients in the eye and see the whole person. Other times I look at them and see a thick juicy steak.
I think what works for me is realizing that everyone has a reason for doing what they're doing. There is a reason for how they're acting. I don't have to get into the passenger seat of whatever is driving them. Consequently, they are not the reason for issues in my life. It really doesn't take much effort on my part to have a good day and if someone pisses me off, I just up their elevation on the treadmill.
Go to give, right? What the hell.
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Re: Principles at Work?
Sun, April 5, 2009 - 7:11 PMYou really don't want my commentary on this subject. Trust me. -
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Re: Principles at Work?
Sun, April 5, 2009 - 7:31 PMOh yes.....but over a hot fudge sundae.
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